I'm dealing with a serious issue which i'm totally embarrassed to talk about but the longer i keep it, the more terrifying it becomes. I and my wife got married barely 9 months ago and for the fear of God decided not to have sex before marriage. Everything was perfect until we had sex because aftrewards, She had this bizarre reaction; burning, swelling and redness, which was very unusual. At first, I thought she had contracted an STD [sexually transmitted disease]. Horrified, she made an appointment with the gynecologist for testing and was nervous about the result. After several doctors' visits and hours of research online, She finally got some answers, but it derailed our sex life and shook my marriage. The doctor confirmed that she had "Seminal Plasma Hypersensitivity", an allergic reaction to the proteins in my semen. Even using a condom didn't help, so we have avoided intimacy.
My problem now is that I've waited so long for this and now I cant even touch my wife. I'm contemplating divorcing her because I don't want to be unfaithful but I don't want her to feel abandoned. Please what should I do?Hmmm, please y'all advice him o...what would you do if your wife is allergic to your sperm?