Some days back, I came across an article about a 99 year-old man divorcing his wife of 77 years after finding out that she cheated on him over 60 yrs ago. For a lady, it won't mean anything since it was a long time ago, although it shouldn't be with her best-friend. While there are countless examples of women taking men back and forgiving them after they've cheated, why does it appear to be so hard for men to do the same? I understand men and women are different creatures but why is it so hard for men to forgive these type of offenses? Do you think that men do forgive more often than we know of and they just don’t talk about it like women do?
That's just the way it is. To call it like I see it is to call men selfish but a man would rather you stay perfect while he is the one with the issues. I have had a man explain it to me saying when a woman cheats, emotions are involved but when a man cheats, it's just sex.
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