I counsel men who struggle with how to love a woman, specifically how to love their partner. Sometimes it's because of how she looks, sometimes because she doesn't love them very well, and sometimes because they don't like who she is.
The key to how to love a woman is to fall in love with the RIGHT part of her. Advertising tells us to fall in love with how she looks. Hollywood tells us to fall in love with how she loves. Real people, in successful relationships will tell us to fall in love with who she is.
A woman's character is the most beautiful part of her. How to love a woman? Fall in love with that.