Before I delve into this letter, I have to apologize to Ikoji because I got some messages claiming I was too harsh in my advice. But I remember stating that I wasn't the right person to ask such because I grew up in a home, where a lady caused hell for my mum in bid to become my dad's wife, so please pardon my lack of sympathy. Todays letter is from Kofi in Ghana and it reads;
I'm in a serious dilemma with me friend's wifey and though we are not fooling around, I know I'm in love with her. She represents all I want in a girl and when we talk, she fills up my world. I care for my friend because he is like a brother to me and I don't want to come between them. But my feelings keep getting stronger every day and when she is not around I feel so lost. Please help!In my opinion, if you don't want to come between them, get your own girlfriend first, then stop hanging out with them.