Hi guys, I really do enjoy reading your messages and I hope you get the answer you seek from people's comments. Today's message came from Gabbi in London and it reads;
I've been dating my girlfriend for over 2 years now and I've introduced her to my family so plans are already in place for marriage. She lives in South Africa, whilst I'm doing my masters in the UK. I love her with all my heart and she is the best girl I've ever dated. Our problem started when she started acting funny, particularly after I saw a picture she took with another guy at a party she went for. Although this raised my suspicion but I still believed her when she said he was just a friend and nothing more. You can then imagine my shock when six months later whilst chatting on skype, she stood up to go pee and I noticed a protruded stomach. I knew it was definitely not over-feeding and when I asked her, she confessed it was for the same guy she took that picture with earlier. She cried and begged that it was a mistake, claiming she loves me and not the guy. I'm going through a lot of emotions right now but one that seems to be constant, is heartache, because i do blame myself for the distance. Should i take her back or just let her go, because i still love her?