Tuesday, 18 September 2012

Dear Bela, My Fiance' Beats Me And Threatens To Kill Himself If I Leave

I would like to start by thanking you all for you messages, although i don't get to put all of them but I do read them. Also, please do leave a comment on other post as you send your messages because there would be no blog without your comments. With that said, I got this message from Edita (Lithuania) and it says;
"Dear Belarich,
I've been dating my fiance since high school and we have gone through a lot that our relationship feels more like marriage. He proposed last year on my birthday, which was a bittersweet feeling for me because of late, we've been having nasty arguments that usually results in him hitting me. The last incident resulted in me being in the hospital for a week. When i returned from the hospital i was determined to leave him but he said he couldn't live without me and that if i go, he would kill himself. I do love him but i'm afraid that i might not leave the relationship or marriage alive. I tried talking to my mum but she is so preoccupied with the wedding plans that she doesn't want to believe the picture of the person he is now. She kept on saying it's the stress of the wedding, that we should work it out. I don't know who to talk to, please help!
All i can say is, run as fast as your legs can carry you. Even if it means me paying for you to come live with me till he finally kills himself...Just saying.


  1. bear am n take tins easy unless u wanna start from square one.

  2. @Efe what in Gods name r u talking about..bear what? what is there if she starts from square one with a good man, what is the rush, u act like the guy is her only hope or maybe you beat your girlfriend too that why you can say such nonsense, if it was your sister will you advice her this way...go to the mortuary and see how many women were killed by their boyfriends and husbands... i'm sure she is a pretty girl and she can find a better man, do you want her to die, someone that spent time in the hospital and u r saying she should bear it because of what...mtcheeeeewwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwww....Please life is about loving yourself and making sure you are fine and healthy not wanting a man to make you complete and send you to an early grave..HABA!!!

  3. Abeg tell d boy friend make e kill himself, d World will b a beta place without him in it

  4. There is nothing to bear...its like silence suffering. i agree with Claribel. you should leave him before he kills you cox if you don't, you might be the one that's gonna end up killed with the emotional stress he's putting you through.


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