I fink for me its more of d fear of marrying the wrong partner...d dread f coming home eternally to smwhere devoid of love...and absent of warmth. I think its a healthy fear though, nt a paranoir..;;)
In my opinion, there are lots of pressure around from friends, family not to stay single, because as Christians "We are meant to be fruitful and Multiply" as well as getting married to the wrong person is the worst! marriage should be built on love, trust companionship and friendship and if a home is void of these, that's the saddest thing that can happen to a person. Like i always say to myself, it is always best to wait and weight and be absolutely sure before going into it, cos its a lifetime commitment!
The fear of remaining unmarried or being married to the wrong person.................. I think is just the fear of the unknown... i strongly support what Tolulope comment " it is always best to wait and weight and be absolutely sure before going into it, cos its a lifetime commitment!"
So how long is an healthy waiting period?----- Jamb question, there is nothing like how long or long enough.. always learn to listen to your mind and God
Note: you can never get a perfect person (he/she), you can only build one.. The most imp thing is that u should let God lead u.
I fink for me its more of d fear of marrying the wrong partner...d dread f coming home eternally to smwhere devoid of love...and absent of warmth. I think its a healthy fear though, nt a paranoir..;;)
ReplyDeleteIf that be the case, wat option wud u take?
DeleteIn my opinion, there are lots of pressure around from friends, family not to stay single, because as Christians "We are meant to be fruitful and Multiply" as well as getting married to the wrong person is the worst! marriage should be built on love, trust companionship and friendship and if a home is void of these, that's the saddest thing that can happen to a person. Like i always say to myself, it is always best to wait and weight and be absolutely sure before going into it, cos its a lifetime commitment!
ReplyDeleteYou've side-lined the discussion, are you afraid of being single? Why?
DeleteI have never been afraid of being single and i am not single, if i were, i wouldn't be waiting and being sure
DeleteThe fear of remaining unmarried or being married to the wrong person.................. I think is just the fear of the unknown... i strongly support what Tolulope comment " it is always best to wait and weight and be absolutely sure before going into it, cos its a lifetime commitment!"
ReplyDeleteSo how long is an healthy waiting period?
DeleteSo how long is an healthy waiting period?----- Jamb question, there is nothing like how long or long enough.. always learn to listen to your mind and God
DeleteNote: you can never get a perfect person (he/she), you can only build one.. The most imp thing is that u should let God lead u.
Knowing u cant get a perfect person, why is dere still the fear of marrying the wrong one?
DeleteThe wrong one? because of what our ladies/ guys are turning into now..and dnt ask me what?
DeleteStill u need to listen to your God...
Bela and Jamb question.. in-fact, they should make you the next person in charge of setting Jamb questions