Bela's Corner: Do You Consider Fantasizing About Someone Else During Sex, Cheating?!

Recently, a friend and I were having a discussion about cheating. He was feeling a bit guilty and wanted to know if fantasizing about someone else during sex with your partner is cheating. Hmmm….good question. Of course, I had to ask who he was fantasizing about. Was it Kim Kardashian…or an ex girlfriend? He said out of the hundreds of times he’s had sex with his girlfriend, he only fantasized about someone else twice. Once was with a chick he never actually had sex with, but who he wished he did, and the other was with an ex. So what do you think, is it cheating?

The Nigerian Ambassador To The US Says "God Is A Nigerian"

Via Sahara Reporters

The Nigerian ambassador to the United States, Prof. Ade Adefuye has said that God is a Nigerian. He made the declaration yesterday at the Christian Association of Nigerian-Americans’(CANAN) first Charity Gala and Top Ten Awards Dinner. He said that it was divine power that made it possible for Nigeria to survive the obstacles it has encountered. He gave an example of the succession crisis that followed the death of former President Umaru Yar’adua. He said that at the point when some people were throwing around the “doctrine of necessity,” there was a real chance of a coup that would have torpedoed Nigeria’s democracy. CONTINUE.

Parents Outraged Over Pupils Learning About Jay Z As An Example Of A Successful Business Tycoon

According to a report on Fox news, parents of 6th graders at Desoto Central Middle School at angry on the school teaching their kidsabout Jay Z. The report states;

"Sixth graders at Desoto Central Middle School spent three days learning about one of the most successful hip-hop artists and entrepreneurs in the nation. They were also tested on their knowledge about Jay-Z’s “resilience.”
A parent, who had a son in the English class, reached out to me – and she’s fired up. The mad mom asked to remain anonymous over fears of repercussions. I was able to verify her claims and have agreed to provide anonymity.
“One of the songs listed on the paper that was brought home was ‘Big Pimpin’,” she told me. “Another song talked about thug life. My child was getting an education about thug life.”
She could not believe that her child was learning about a man who sings songs that degrade women and glorify the thug life." CONTINUE

Rihanna Almost Died Of Drug Overdose During Her Vacation In Barbados

via Crazy Day and Night

When Rihanna went back home to Barbados recently there are reports from multiple people on the island that one night during her visit Rihanna overdosed on drugs and had to have a doctor rush to her and pump her stomach. Apparently Rihanna was smoking kush and then decided to smoke some that had been laced either with PCP or some other type of drug. She kept smoking it as if it was just a regular joint and had smoked two of them before the effects hit and they hit hard. While smoking she was also drinking and the doctor said that if she had passed out away from friends and the party that she probably would have died.

Hilarious: The Most Effective Way To Get Women To Exercise

I saw this video on facebook and just thought to share it with y'all...Enjoy, lmao!

Teyana Taylor And Rihanna Fires Shots At Each Other Over Shady Instagram Video

Personally, I think Rihanna is a cyber bully and because her fans her very quick to support her, she doesn't know when she has crossed the line with someone. Anyway, this whole situation started over a video that TT posted on instagram, of her singing to a song by Anita Baker "Caught in the Rapture".

Lamar's Father "Joe Odom" Accuses The Kardashian Family Of Causing Lamar's Drug Problems

In an exclusive interview with RadarOnline.com, Joe rips into each member of the reality TV family and claims marrying Khloe was the worst mistake 33-year-old Lamar ever made! Among Joe’s amazing claims are:
* The Kardashians have cursed his boy and ruined his basketball career;
* The reality show put too much pressure on Lamar, forcing him to turn to drugs; and
* Kris Jenner is an “an evil b*tch” and dismisses Kim as a “porn star”.

Dear Belarich: After 7 Years Of Relationship She Got Engaged And Married Another Guy

Dear Belarich,
I am in need of some serious advice. I am 29 years old, no kids, and been with my ex-girlfriend for almost 7 years, off and on, up and down. She is now 27 years old. My problem is that I am filled with so much guilt and regret because of some of the choices and decisions I made. Me and my ex were in a long distance relationship for quite some time. She’s in Ireland and I’m in London, and we were going back and forth. She always used to say to, “You know I can’t do this long distance relationship.” And, I understood that. So, I said ok, I am gonna take care of what I have to do in London and then move. The problem is we were a little strained, but we were trying to work it out. Continue to see my reply

The New Gold iPhone 5s Completely Sold Out Less Than 24 Hours After Debuting...Till October.

For those planning on getting the iPhone 5s, it's like you have to wait a lil longer because fellow phone lovers have grabbed all they can carry *shines teeth*....Anyway, according to a report on CNN;

"Early buyers of the iPhone 5S, which went on sale Friday morning, appear to be overwhelmingly choosing the gold-colored model over the two other color options. People trying to buy a gold phone in Apple’s online store Friday saw a message stating the phone will not ship until October. By contrast, Apple said the silver and “space gray” models will be shipped in 7 to 10 business days. Anecdotal reports from lines of shoppers outside Apple stores Friday also showed big demand for the gold-hued phones, which Apple is offering for the first time."

SMH....I think the hype is the fingerprint scanning and the gold case but i don't mind if you get one for me sha *runs away*

Bela's Corner: How Would You Tell Your Spouse That He/She Has Got Body/Mouth Odour?

Someone asked me this question at work the other day and it occurred to me that this was one of those topics couples try to avoid. Personally, I think it depends on the individual i.e if the person is one that won't or would get offended when you bring up such discussion, so you can either give the person a deodorant as a gift or offer mint as a token *shines teeth*. Anyway, that's my opinion, so what do you think/suggest?